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16 Things

I was tagged for this “16 Things” meme on Facebook, and thought I would re-post my 16 things here. Consider yourself tagged!

Here are the Rules I received when tagged: Once you’ve been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with 16 random things, facts, habits, or goals about you. At the end, choose 16 or more people to be tagged. You have to tag the person who tagged you. If I tagged you, it’s because I want to know more about you. And if you’ve haven’t been tagged, do it anyway!

Preface to my 16 things… I have recently been blessed to reconnect with some dear friends from my early years staffing at Kansas Bible Camp. Dear friends with whom I have been out of contact for many many years. In light of that, my 16 things are going to be focused on a recap of the last 16 or so years of my life. If you already know all this stuff, feel free to skip this note, but I’m guessing there will be some new info for everyone.

1. I am a believer in God the Creator as He reveals Himself in the Bible – saved by grace, through faith in the precious blood of Jesus. I’m not very concerned with what I call “boxes” – the constructs that we create so that God seems comfortable and tame to us. I am learning to seek Him in His word, and finding that He is faithful to reveal Himself.

2. I graduated from Blue Ridge Christian School in 1991. Shortly thereafter, my friend Mike and I went on a double date with my brother Eric and one of my best friends, Rebekah. It was such a blessing to gain her as my sister in 1994.

3. I played hopscotch through four years of college: 1st year – Emmaus Bible College in Dubuque, IA; 2nd year – Longview Community College in KC; 3rd year – Hutchinson Community College in Hutch, KS (see #3); 4th year – back to Emmaus. Due to the hopscotch, four years did not equal a degree, but I learned a great deal!

4. Since the early 1980’s Kansas Bible Camp has been a tremendous part of my life. We started going there for Papa to speak (not sure when that first happened) at kids camps; I staffed there every summer from 1986 to 1995; Jonathan and I lived there for most of 1998 (our daughter Elanor was born in the upstairs apartment); and most importantly, God has used KBC in many ways in my personal growth and relationship with Him.

5. Jonathan and I were married on September 23, 1995. When we were younger, we both had a list of people we *knew* we would never marry. Jonathan’s was two people long, and I was one of them. My list was only one person – Jonathan! God has such a sense of humor, as well as wisdom far beyond ours. I’m so very thankful for the man that He has given me.

6. Jonathan and I have been blessed with 7 beautiful children. Davey (12), Barak (11), Elanor (10), Josiah (9), Kate (7), Grace (5), and Stephen (19 months). They are a joy, a challenge, a delight, a daily opportunity for learning.

7. I have one brother, Eric. He is a doctor (Internal Medicine), and has a practice in Hendersonville, NC. He is married to my beautiful friend Beka, and they have four children whom I adore – Ethan, Isaiah, Abigail, and Chloe.

8. Papa and Mama are living in Franklin, NC, about and hour and a half from Eric and Beka. They moved down to NC several years ago to care for G’pa and G’ma. G’pa and G’ma both passed away last fall, and Papa and Mama are waiting on the Lord as they seek to figure out what He has for them next. They are the youngest folks their age I know, and two of our dearest friends!

9. Jonathan and I have lived in 9 houses in our 13 years of marriage. We lived in/around Hutchinson, KS for the first five years (5 houses). We have lived in the St. Louis area since 2000, and just moved to our fourth house in Missouri. We currently are renting from some friends – a lovely house on 10 gorgeous acres (with a creek, pond, chicken coop, and lots of room to roam).

10. 6 of our 7 children were born with a Certified Professional Midwife in a home environment. Katie (baby #5) was born in a hospital here in Missouri. That experience (while miraculous and full of blessings) impacted us so deeply that we returned to Kansas for the birth of our last two babies to in order to welcome them in a home setting with a legal midwife (see #11).

11. We moved to Missouri knowing that the practice of midwifery was included in the statutory definition of the practice of medicine, and was therefore a felony offense In Missouri (hence, the birth in the hospital). We have been very involved in Friends of Missouri Midwives since shortly after we moved, working to increase healthy birth options for families in Missouri. I have served as vice-president and president of FoMM. This past June, families across Missouri were thrilled when the Missouri Supreme Court ruled to uphold a new statute legalizing Certified Professional Midwives in Missouri. Jonathan and I love knowing that if the Lord blesses us with any more children, we will have the option of working with a legal midwife right here in Missouri!

12. As you might guess from #’s 10 and 11, birth is a big deal to me. I am amazed and fascinated by the wonder of God’s creation in this area. I truly believe that the process of carrying and birthing a baby is one of the most sacred and precious gifts God has given women.

13. God has been teaching me a great deal about grace lately. His grace to me, His grace through me to others, etc. More on this will likely be coming out in my blog over the next year or so. Speaking of which…

14. I’m a blogger. I find blogging to be a blessing for several reasons – it helps me record what is going on with my family; it is a processing tool; it is a way to encourage and bless others; it is fun! I also love to read the blogs of others, but have come to depend on my Google Reader to keep from from spending hours and hours browsing blogs. If you’re interested in reading me, my blog is at grace-and-glory.blogspot.com

15. Perfectionism is a character issue that I am actively working on overcoming. I tend toward that crippling kind of perfectionism that doesn’t do something at all because it might not be perfect. I’m learning to cut myself and those around me some slack.

16. I’m extremely eclectic. I appreciate many kinds of music; I enjoy a wide variety of genres and authors; I have friends from a large spectrum of beliefs, cultures, politics; I like a blend of architecture and design styles; etc. There are things about me which most folks would find contradictory – like the fact that I wear a covering on my head most of the time… and I plan to get a tattoo soon. I believe that it is vital to live a life of obedience to God. And He’s showing me that obedience to Him is not about conforming to a set of rules/boxes/man-made traditions. It’s all about Him, and He’s much bigger than we tend to acknowledge. What He has to say about Himself is very clear and easily accessible in His Word, the Bible.

Back Online

We had our new internet service (satellite) installed on Friday. Saturday, we had a demonstration of the less-stable aspect of a satellite connection, as there were storms most of the day and we had no service. But all in all, we think we’ll survive. Which is good, because this is apparently our best option for this location at this time!

I’ve been waiting to post a blog until I had time to do an extensive one, but I’ve realized it might never happen that way. So, here I am to say, “I’m baaaack!” I thoroughly enjoyed our two weeks and two days without internet. It was blissful. I’m also thrilled to be back online, and praying for wisdom in the use of my time.

I was planning to “blog” off-line and post this wonderful account of our two weeks when I got back. Alas, I managed to write only one day. I’ll try to post our Christmas highlights soon.

In the meantime, here is a little something from Dec. 13th:
Saturday, Dec 13
On Wed 12/10, we broke up with our unsatisfactory ISP. That was quite an experience; one I’ll probably never write about because, while I try to be real on this blog, I see no need to belabor the negative. Suffice it to say that we chose to end the service. We have new service lined up, but the first install date was Dec. 24, so we’re off-line for two whole weeks!

I actually can think of no better time to go cold turkey than the Christmas season. The last few days have been great. Lots of time hanging out as a family and enjoying each other. I’m looking forward to the remainder of our off-line time.

Wednesday night we enjoyed some fellowship with the Teeters at their house. Both of our families have been pretty crazy lately, and it was a blessing to get to sit and visit together.

The fact that Papa and Mama Byrd arrived at our house on Thursday has certainly contributed to the wonderfulness of our time off-line! Thursday, we mostly hung out, played games, etc. Jonathan had some work to do, but got home around 4pm. After the kids went to bed, the four of us played our Christmas present from the Teeters – a game called Cadoo. It was lots of fun.

Friday, Mama and I took Stephen and finished Papa and Mama’s Smith Christmas shopping. We also met up with Auntie Joyce, Sarah, and Asher for lunch, which was fun. Mama and I have always enjoyed shopping together, and we had a great (and successful) excursion. The last stop was Walmart, where we also bought groceries for the rest of their visit, and pizza for supper last night.

Unfortunately, lunch did not sit well with Mama, and they ended up heading back to the Traxler Bed & Breakfast a bit early. While I was sad that Mama felt so wretched, the side benefit to them heading home early was that I got to finish up their Christmas present. Yay!

Today we are looking forward to Beka and The Cousins getting here. They got a late start from KC (where they visited Beka’s family), so it will be late afternoon before they get here. And I need to use that time to get some cooking/baking/crafting/cleaning done, so I’d better get on the move!

Off line

It looks like we will soon be off line indefinitely… Our new ISP is charging us twice as much as they said they would for some not-so-hot wireless broadband that does not meet our needs. I’m getting ready to call and cancel the service. We’ll be looking at getting satellite isp, but don’t know how long it will take to get it set up.

May God Bless you and keep your hearts and minds focused on Him this Christmas season!

Cutest Blog

I’ve been longing for a Christmas blog look, but dreading the time that it takes for me to transfer all of my gadgets over to one of Lena’s beautiful designs.  I noticed that my friend Rachel had a really cute new background, so I sneaked a peek at her source – The Cutest Blog on the Block.   They have lots of free backgrounds, and one thing I love about the backgrounds is that they function as a simple gadget that you add to a “minima” template.  Everything stays the same; just the background changes.  Then you can go in and change your text colors and such as you like.  My kind of simplicity.

P.S.  I’ll admit, I changed the placement of the little link box.  It looks so much more at home in the side column.

More pictures of the new house

We had a wonderful time yesterday evening with our friends from whom we will be renting our new house.  I forgot to get a picture of all of them together, so I’ll have to do that this next weekend (they’re in town for a little while).

Here are some more pictures, mostly of the house.  They have captions, but I don’t know if they show up in the slideshow (they do show up on the Picasa page).

The “Followers” Gadget

Besides letting the blogger know that you read her blog, the “follow” feature also puts the posts in the “Blogs I’m Following” tab on your Blogspot dashboard. I still use my Google Reader, but this feature might be handy for some folks.

I’ve noticed how neat this gadget is on Mary’s blog, and I know from my sitemeter that I have a few readers. Will any of them admit to it publicly? We’ll see!

So Much to Blog…

… so little time.

I have multiple blog posts swirling again in my head.  And not much time to blog right now!
I’m going to try to get a few posts up this afternoon.  If I don’t manage it, I apologize for the false promise.  If I do manage it, I apologize for the flood!