Musings from the Threshold

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So Excited

I’m so excited right now that I’m on the verge of tears. I just got off the phone with the midwife in Kansas, and things are all good for us to come home to have this baby. I also finally made my first pre-natal appointment for next Monday (here, not in KS).

I realized mid-week last week that subconscious fear about losing the baby because of the hormonal imbalance had me frozen in my plan making. I made it my goal to get past that fear and make those calls this week. And here it is, not even 1pm on Monday, and I’ve done it! Praise the Lord!

Besides that…
My precious parents are on their way toward me RIGHT NOW! I haven’t seen them since the end of May, and then for not nearly long enough. They should be here tonight in time for our homeschool group’s Open House to hear the Blessings sing in the choir.

And…
My hubby is done with work early and is on his way home. Yay! We’re hoping to get our table finished up while the weather is so nice. Highs in the upper 60’s today, tomorrow, and Wed. High on Thursday – 34′!

Water, the wonder cure

A friend of mine suggested a few weeks ago that I try to drink more water to help dilute whatever causes the nausea. I’ve really seen it be effective most of the time, so I thought I’d throw that out there…. 🙂

I was planning to work on My Balancing Journey this afternoon while Jonathan is finishing up some work stuff, but I think I need to go sit down with my big jug o’ water and dilute. Hopefully I’ll be feeling better in time to get my next entry or two done.

Back on the FlyWagon again

A couple of background notes…

*I have found myself really struggling this pregnancy with giving in to feeling badly, and therefore being super lethargic, tired, and physically miserable a good deal of the time. Especially in the morning. In the last few weeks, I’ve gotten almost no group school work done with the Blessings, something we count on for getting our work for the year accomplished.

*Several years ago, Beka led me to Flylady.net (thanks Honey!). It has been a lifesaver in so many ways, and has changed my thinking about a lot of things. I have this tendency to go in spurts with Flylady, and sometime in late winter/spring, I tend to start letting go of habits that I’ve been working on establishing. I always have a wake-up call when the holidays start to approach, though, because I’ve found the only way I can get through the holiday months with any sense of clarity and calm is to FLY!

So…

A few nights ago, I had my yearly epiphany and realized I had better start Flying, and fast! So I got out my Holiday Control Journal and have been working on that. I also re-started Flylady emails.

I tell you what! I am just thanking the Lord for helping me back on the FlyWagon (yes, I made that term up myself). Here’s some of what I’ve been doing this week –

Getting ready for Thanksgiving
Starting to bake Christmas gifts (it’s going to be a Very Frugal year, so I need to start now and freeze stuff as I go)
Having Dinner planned and/or started before noon yesterday and today
Sitting down with the Blessings for breakfast and our Firm Foundations lesson
Exercising (just got back to that today)
Shining my sink
Working on getting back to my morning and evening routines (I’m not rushing into this one; it’s such a process for me)

It’s interesting to me how much better I feel physically now that I’m getting stuff accomplished. I’m not finding myself on the couch or back in bed most of the morning. And mentally/emotionally, it’s of course much better to be being productive instead of lethargic.

I’m contemplating proposing to my hubby that we turn the Resurrection season into a major family holiday… in part, to keep me from falling off the FlyWagon!


Another interruption to the Balancing Journey… Pregnancy note

I’ve had friends talk while pregnant about how “this baby just doesn’t like ______ ” and I have to admit, I inwardly laughed. It seemed so silly.

But that’s because I’d never experienced it!

And now… I’m growing a baby who doesn’t like coffee. I limit myself during pregnancy to 1 cup of caffeine a day, so it’s not like I’m missing out on *that* much. But, ya know? I really like my coffee. And baby makes it clear that we have a difference of opinion. Nausea like …. ugghh.

I’m curious to see this aversion to coffee wears off when we pass the 12 week mark. If not, I know one of the first things I’m going to be asking for after baby arrives!

By the way… Today = 8 weeks + 2 days.

Re-focusing

I think I’ve had a breakthrough! I realized today that I really want to blog more about this pregnancy, to have a written record of the process, etc. #7 babies just don’t normally have a very good shot at knowing what things were like when they were on the way, etc, and I want a record for this little one.

That led me to realize that, while it didn’t begin that way, blogging has unfortunately become more about if I’m read and commented on than about writing. I want to re-focus there.

And I need to go give lunch to those of my Blessings who can eat it. Doozey of a flu this week. 2 down, 3 in process, 1 looking green (that ‘s the kid count… Laurel looks green much of the time, lol).